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CinnamonGoree255 — Sat, 04 Aug 2012 16:08:05 GMT

CinnamonGoree255: Created page with 'What you could Study from Kim Kardashian I know. You're rolling your eyes and going "puhleeeez, Kim, forget about tabloid fodder!", yes? Well, you may already know, I'm about co…'

What you could Study from Kim Kardashian

I know. You're rolling your eyes and going "puhleeeez, Kim, forget about tabloid fodder!", yes? Well, you may already know, I'm about conscious relating and often the attention provided to celebrities making really bad mistakes can become excellent teaching points for which NOT to do.

And, this is the situation with the recent news of Kim Kardashian and her "72 day" marriage.

I think we can all agree these two were possibly doomed right from the start. All of the pieces were in place; media hungry couple, money on the line, sponsors they devoted to and, perhaps, more in love with the marriage then they were with each other.

Whenever you remove the money, the cameras as well as their much talked about status, this couple's situation isn't unlike regular, every single day couples I've coached or met.

I've observed lots of couples who became swept up in the fantasy of the wedding and rush into something which , deep-down, they knew wasn't right. Every day I consult with women who admit they've ignored "red flags" and indicators - along with a surprising number is not because they walked down the aisle these were making the largest mistake of their life.

Once those invitations are sent, wedding gown ordered and church booked it might be a growing number of difficult to out - pressure is on.

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1. Slow Down
If you're inside your 30's, you most likely have one eye in your career and the other on your biological clock. When you are within this place, marriage can feel just like a race. The only real place a "high speed connection" is appropriate is by using your pc, not with a guy. My recommended timeline for courtship is really as follows:

Wait at least 60 days before you decide to sleep together
Let your new partner know no later than A few months your goal is marriage
Be in relationship for at least 1 year before marriage

2. Deal Breakers
Similar to couples who avoid issues by putting attention on their kids, planning for a wedding works in a similar way. It sweeps issues underneath the carpet as your focus shifts to preparing for the large day. If your values and what's vital that you you do not align now, they won't in the future. Know what your deal breakers are BEFORE you commit.

3. Nerves vs. Red Flag
Nervous excitement feels like fun butterflies inside your stomach. Creating a big mistake is leaden with an uncertainty that will not go away - that's a red flag. If that's you, then it's time to step back, get perspective and, if necessary, possess a really open conversation with your mate.

If you know you are going to walk down the aisle with the wrong man, go ahead and have the courage to finish it. It may produce a little bit of drama but, let's face it, the folks you invited for your wedding are those you love probably the most - and your happiness is much more vital that you them a free bit of wedding cake. Flights could be re-booked, flowers cancelled and you will feel good knowing you just saved your lifetime of unhappiness.

CinnamonGoree255

CinnamonGoree255 — Sat, 04 Aug 2012 16:07:57 GMT